Practical Law Presentations Mediation Tips for Preparing for Mediation "The courts of this country should not be the places where the resolution of disputes begins. They should be the places where disputes end -- after alternative methods of resolving disputes have been considered and tried. The courts of our various jurisdictions have been called the 'courts of last resort.' " -- Justice Sandra Day O'Connor (download this info. as a word doc. -- includes Questions to Ask Yourself If You're Considering Mediation) Following are some things to think about prior to mediation: Define the specific issues you want to discuss. Identify your needs and interests -- decide what is really important. Establish your priorities. Know your legal rights. Explore a wide variety of possible solutions. Anticipate the other person's point of view and interests. Be sure your ideas are realistic, reasonable, and possible. Be willing to compromise. Work to maximize the joint gain, or minimize the joint loss. Consider the mutual benefits of agreement. >>Mediation Home >>Researching Local Programs & Experts >>Planning Your Program >>Choosing Mediation Over Litigation >>Tips for Preparing for Mediation >>Questions to Ask Yourself if You Are Considering Using Mediation >>Tips on Settling Parenting Issues >>Tips for Speakers >>National Dispute Resolution Organizations >>Additional Resources Reaching the Community Home | Practical Law Presentations Home