Ethical concerns can jeopardize the outcome of the litigation, the lawyers
involvement in the case, and quite possibly the lawyers continuing
ability to practice law, should a disciplinary body become involved.
Discretion is always appropriate in this context, whether you are raising
or responding to the particular ethical concern. While it is impossible
to generalize about ethical issues, the importance of addressing them
promptly and ethically, and memorializing the resolution in writing,
cannot be overstated.
From Letters for Litigators: Essential Communications for Opposing
Counsel, Witnesses, Clients, and Others

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