Volume 19, Number 1
January/February 2002
Do-It-Yourself Mentoring
By Martha Fay Africa
Mentoring and training, like beauty, are in the eye of the beholder. Everyone, whether associate or partner, has a different definition. That's the problem. Without a consistent view of what constitutes training and mentoring, people don't recognize that they are receiving it. Can't you just visualize a senior partner announcing to an associate, "I'm mentoring you now, don't you feel it?" Absurd scenarios aside, if a lawyer isn't conscious of getting or giving what the other offers or needs-feedback about improving a brief, or a stroke for a job well done-the intent is wasted. Isn't that a shame? We used to think of law as an apprentice profession, one in which it took at least three years after law school for an associate to become useful to a client or to advance to a senior status in the firm. A junior lawyer ritually carried a more senior lawyer's bag-literally and figuratively-and training occurred by osmosis. Both parties understood that the junior lawyer would learn something as a result of accompanying the more senior lawyer, if only by watching and not participating. Sometimes the client was billed for these "passive" experiences, and sometimes not, but they were recognized as contributing to the professional maturation of the junior lawyer. As lawyers in this state of close proximity grew to trust and respect each other, mentoring relationships often developed naturally. But as law shifted from a profession to a business and clients made it clear that they were unwilling to pay for training, the rituals practiced during the era of "law as sacred profession" changed. Today, junior lawyers, for the most part, get more responsibility earlier, whether or not they can handle it, because the economics of the profession dictate that junior lawyers must be profitable earlier. Training and mentoring might be profitable activities for the law firm that takes a long view of its relationship with junior associates, because the firm expects to realize its investment. However, law firms with short- to mid-range views are less likely to train. Senior lawyers may think: Why train someone who will leave anyway? Why train when I can't bill for it? Why train when no one trained me? Why train when I haven't a clue about how to go about it and I don't even like this associate? And finally: Why am I paying these associates all this money if they can't figure it out themselves? This is the problem that young associates face in firms of all sizes.
Big Firms: Training, Not Mentoring
In big firms, training programs are often institutionalized. The
firm possesses a body of training materials, access to
state-of-the-art technologies to link lawyers by remote, rooms in
which to hold training sessions, lawyers with the expertise to
deliver, and novel client matters that consistently challenge the
edge and provide a rich stream of new training experiences. These
training experiences are essential in big firms because they
provide associates with the often-missing ingredients they crave:
human contact and interaction. If you talk to third-years in a
major city practice who seldom deal directly with a client and
almost never get to deal with "real" people's problems, you'll
find that they feel isolated and lonely. Training sessions give
them an excuse to see and interact with others while learning at
the same time. This is not to say that if a firm is large it has
no mentors, or that one-on-one, hands-on feedback never occurs.
But such time-consuming feedback is likely to come from a more
senior associate, possibly at the expense of his or her own
future. One associate ruefully told me of a mentor relationships
she had with a junior partner in a mid-size firm who was, to her
and to many of her peers, a true mentor: He trained, gave
negative and positive feedback, and took risks for them when he
thought they were right. Associates flocked to him. The firm
criticized him because he wasn't billing enough (although he was
working outrageous hours) and, seeing his compensation reduced
because of his associate training and mentoring activities, he
left. Yet some larger firms actually retain partners who may not
be rainmaker types, but are good at mentoring and training, to
lead these activities. Associates seem more likely to recognize
the firm's efforts to train them when the role is centralized and
led by a partner they like and trust.
Small Firms: Sink or Swim
But what of smaller firms-how do they do it? A.J. Rollins, a
third-year associate at Atlanta's six-lawyer firm of Jackson
& Tyler, LLP, is pleased with the training he received in
corporate and tax law. The firm had a mix of formal and informal
training, and he was particularly enthusiastic about its
utilization of tapes from the Southern Federal Tax Institute.
Gathering with other junior lawyers for lunch once a month and
listening to the tapes gave them the opportunity to relate the
information to client matters currently being dealt with at the
firm. At other firm lunches, associates were encouraged to raise
issues relating to their work and kick around various solutions
to client matters. Rollins says his biggest surprise about
practicing law was that he assumed the lawyers he practiced with
would know all the answers to issues that came up-just like his
professors seemed to in law school. He was unprepared for the
fact that lawyers do not know all the answers, and also for the
range of disagreement about specific issues. But both the
open-mindedness and the disagreements made him feel better about
the trajectory of his learning curve, and he became more patient
as a result. Brian Davis, managing director at the New York
office of Major, Hagen & Africa, is a 20-year veteran lawyer
who practiced in smaller firms. He says that even lawyers expect
law to be intuitive, "and it's not. You have to be taught, step
by step. Sometimes I would begin to explain a project to a young
associate, and I could see when they got it: Bingo-the light went
on! Other times, I'd have to go through the process again." Davis
says one of his hires, a Harvard Law School graduate, once told
him, "When you start practicing law for the first time, it's the
first time in your life that you have to be told things twice!"
The associate felt humiliated that she didn't immediately
understand how all the pieces fit together. Part of most
non-traumatic learning is, after all, learning to recognize
patterns, and people usually do that by repetition. This
associate hadn't seen most patterns occur twice, so she couldn't
predict whether "a" would be followed by "b" or by "d." Many
associates want a thorough grounding in some discrete area before
venturing afield to learn new ones. Contemporary law practice
seldom affords that luxury, so first years often are spent in
periodic anxiety. Just knowing there is someone to go to with
that dumb question is all most of them need but often don't find.
Associates in small law firms are often confronted with a
revolving door of matters. Many express frustration with the
never-ending learning curve of practices that deal with small
businesses, divorces, drunk driving, real estate, litigation, and
criminal matters. How can a new associate cope in such a
kaleidoscopic environment? One associate told me, "Just find the
firm 'rabbi' and take lessons from him." Another says, "I look
for the great person and I figure if I work with a great person,
I can become a great lawyer." In smaller firms there is a smaller
talent pool to choose from. Should an associate who can't find a
great teacher in his or her first law firm leave? Not
necessarily. There are other choices.
Do It Yourself
One option is to make a commitment to or mentor yourself,
building a network of colleagues from law school, the local bar
association, and acquaintances in other firms who know more than
you do. Another option is to take advantage of firm resources in
terms of form files and documents that can teach you how others
solved that same problem. Start with what's at hand, readily
available, and free of confidentiality conflicts. Take home a few
documents every night: Read them, understand the differences
between them, and try to learn why one lawyer solves the exact
same problem differently than another. As you learn more, you
will gain more confidence in your own judgment. Go to the lawyers
who wrote the puzzling document you read the night before and ask
a few questions about it-it might flatter them, and it will
certainly demonstrate your desire to learn. (All the better, of
course, if you are fishing through documents that relate to your
current workload.) There's little point in reading through
material that you don't have immediate use for unless you expect
to use it soon or are intellectually curious. The point is, we
all want someone to take us by the hand, but sometimes there is
no other hand but your own, so take it! Thank heavens for the
Internet. Many training and networking opportunities exist
because of the Net, many of which are free. It is also a way to
hook up with lawyers outside your jurisdiction and ask questions.
And remember CLE courses. Your state probably requires some, and,
even if your firm does not pay for them, they often provide
inexpensive ways to meet your requirement while learning material
you can use at work. One lawyer tells me that when a new matter
comes into his firm, he simply calls the Practising Law Institute
and orders relevant books on the subject. The books are always
written by authorities in the field, are usually affordable, and
retain their value. Another associate told me that he hung on to
his bar review books as a resource for when he knew next to
nothing about an area. Still another suggested the "In a
Nutshell" series, which includes brief study guides to various
areas of the law. Self-training may be tougher to accomplish than
working with the friendly rabbi, but once you get the hang of
figuring out an area by yourself, the habit will stand you in
good stead. Don't forget your friends-they work at other law
firms with different (and sometimes better) form files and can
send them without breaching confidentiality, thereby bringing you
up to speed and providing a much better result for your client.
Ask other lawyers out to coffee and find out how they learned to
practice. After you scratch the surface of the profession, you
find that few practicing lawyers under age 50 had the fabled
mentor who took them by the hand and helped them toward the
answer. Maybe that was already a myth only 20 years ago. On the
other hand, it is likely that lawyers then were not expected to
mature professionally as quickly as they are today. So learn from
your individual strengths and mentor one another. When you
realize that you can be your own mentor, that there are pieces of
mentor in all the lawyers that you meet, that the single source
mentor may no longer exist, then you can relax. As A.J. Rollins
found, partners still have to pick up books in order to answer
client questions. You may not see them doing it, but trust me,
they do. And you will for the rest of your life in the practice
of law. Be patient with that aspect of your profession, be
supportive of those who are junior to you, and appreciate the
wonder of a profession in which you will never know all there is
to know.
Martha Fay Africa is a founding member of the global attorney search firm of Major, Hagen & Africa (www.mhaglobal.com) and is located in the San Francisco office.



